Step 1: Ensure Reflexivity
For reflexivity, each element in the set \( \{ a, b, c, d \} \) must relate to itself. Thus, the following pairs need to be added:
\[ (a, a), (b, b), (c, c), (d, d). \]
Step 2: Ensure Symmetry
For symmetry, if \( (x, y) \in R \), then \( (y, x) \) must also be in \( R \). The given relation is:
\[ R = \{ (a, b), (b, c), (b, d) \}. \]
To ensure symmetry, the following pairs need to be added:
\[ (b, a), (c, b), (d, b). \]
Step 3: Ensure Transitivity
For transitivity, if \( (x, y) \in R \) and \( (y, z) \in R \), then \( (x, z) \) must also be in \( R \). Adding the necessary pairs for transitivity gives:
\[ (a, c), (a, d), (c, a), (d, a), (c, d), (d, c). \]
Step 4: Total pairs to be added
The total number of pairs to be added is:
\[ 4 \text{ (reflexive)} + 3 \text{ (symmetric)} + 6 \text{ (transitive)} = 13. \]