Step 1: Find the function $f(x)$
Given,
\[
f(x+y)=f(x)+2y^2+y+\alpha xy
\]
Put $x=0$:
\[
f(0+y)=f(0)+2y^2+y+\alpha(0)(y)
\]
\[
f(y)=f(0)+2y^2+y
\]
Since $f(0)=-1$,
\[
f(y)=2y^2+y-1
\]
Replacing $y$ by $x$,
\[
f(x)=2x^2+x-1
\]
Step 2: Find the value of $\alpha$
Now,
\[
f(x+y)=2(x+y)^2+(x+y)-1
\]
Expand:
\[
f(x+y)=2(x^2+2xy+y^2)+x+y-1
\]
\[
f(x+y)=2x^2+4xy+2y^2+x+y-1
\]
Also from the given equation,
\[
f(x)+2y^2+y+\alpha xy
\]
Substitute $f(x)=2x^2+x-1$:
\[
= (2x^2+x-1)+2y^2+y+\alpha xy
\]
\[
=2x^2+x-1+2y^2+y+\alpha xy
\]
Comparing both expressions of $f(x+y)$,
\[
4xy=\alpha xy
\]
Hence,
\[
\alpha=4
\]
Step 3: Verify using $f(1)=2$
\[
f(1)=2(1)^2+1-1
\]
\[
=2+1-1=2
\]
Condition verified.
Step 4: Calculate the required sum
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{5} (\alpha+f(n))
\]
Substitute $\alpha=4$ and $f(n)=2n^2+n-1$:
\[
= \sum_{n=1}^{5} \left(4+2n^2+n-1\right)
\]
\[
= \sum_{n=1}^{5} (2n^2+n+3)
\]
\[
=2\sum_{n=1}^{5}n^2+\sum_{n=1}^{5}n+\sum_{n=1}^{5}3
\]
Use formulas:
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{5} n^2=\frac{5(6)(11)}{6}=55
\]
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{5} n=\frac{5(6)}{2}=15
\]
\[
\sum_{n=1}^{5} 3=3\times 5=15
\]
So,
\[
=2(55)+15+15
\]
\[
=110+30
\]
\[
=140
\]
Final Answer:
\[
\boxed{140}
\]
\[
\boxed{\text{Option (B)}}
\]