The average of the 9 largest numbers is: \[ \frac{x_2 + x_3 + \dots + x_{10}}{9} = 47 \Rightarrow x_2 + x_3 + \dots + x_{10} = 423 \tag{1} \]
The average of the 9 smallest numbers is: \[ \frac{x_1 + x_2 + \dots + x_9}{9} = 42 \Rightarrow x_1 + x_2 + \dots + x_9 = 378 \tag{2} \]
Subtracting (2) from (1): \[ (x_2 + \dots + x_{10}) - (x_1 + \dots + x_9) = 45 \Rightarrow x_{10} - x_1 = 45 \]
From equation (1): \[ x_2 + x_3 + \dots + x_{10} = 423 \Rightarrow \text{Total sum} = x_1 + 423 \Rightarrow \text{Average} = \frac{x_1 + 423}{10} \]
\[ \text{Required difference} = 46.5 - 42.5 = \boxed{4} \]
✅ The correct answer is: \[ \boxed{4} \] (Option A)