Given the set \( A = \{1, 2, 3\} \) and the relation \( R \) containing \( (1, 1), (2, 2), (3, 3), (1, 2) \). The remaining possible pairs for a relation on \( A \) are \( (2, 1), (2, 3), (1, 3), (3, 1), (3, 2) \). We aim to find the number of relations on \( A \) that have at most 6 elements, are reflexive and transitive, but not symmetric.
Step 1: Relations with exactly 4 elements
A relation with 4 elements must include the reflexive pairs \( (1, 1), (2, 2), (3, 3) \). We must select one additional element from the set \( \{ (2, 1), (2, 3), (1, 3), (3, 1), (3, 2) \} \). To maintain transitivity, choosing \( (1, 2) \) is the only valid option, resulting in the relation \( \{(1, 1), (2, 2), (3, 3), (1, 2)\} \). This relation is reflexive and transitive but not symmetric.
Therefore, there is 1 way to form a relation with 4 elements.
Step 2: Relations with exactly 5 elements
These relations must include \( (1, 1), (2, 2), (3, 3) \). We need to choose two additional elements from \( \{ (2, 1), (2, 3), (1, 3), (3, 1), (3, 2) \} \). The valid combinations that maintain transitivity are \( \{(1, 3), (3, 2)\} \) or \( \{(3, 1), (2, 3)\} \). This yields two distinct relations:
Both are reflexive and transitive but not symmetric.
Thus, there are 2 ways to form a relation with 5 elements.
Step 3: Relations with exactly 6 elements
These relations include all reflexive pairs \( (1, 1), (2, 2), (3, 3) \) and three additional pairs from \( \{ (2, 1), (2, 3), (1, 3), (3, 1), (3, 2) \} \). To ensure the relation is transitive and not symmetric, we can form the following three relations:
Note: The example provided in the original text for 6 elements was not exhaustive and contained duplicates and invalid combinations according to the stated conditions. The listed relations above are valid and satisfy the criteria.
Thus, there are 3 ways to form a relation with 6 elements.
Final Answer: The total number of ways is the sum of ways for each case: \( 1 + 2 + 3 = 6 \).