Step 1: Think of M as a weighted average of the two sub-groups.
The 9 numbers split into a group of 3 (average $P$) and a group of 6 (average $N$). The overall average $M$ is a weighted average of $P$ and $N$, weighted by how many numbers are in each group.
Step 2: Write the weighted average formula.
\[ M = \frac{(3 \times P) + (6 \times N)}{3 + 6} \]
Step 3: Simplify the denominator.
\[ M = \frac{3P + 6N}{9} \]
Step 4: Clear the fraction.
Multiply both sides by 9:
$9M = 3P + 6N$.
Step 5: Divide through to simplify.
Divide every term by 3:
$3M = P + 2N$, which is the same as $3M = 2N + P$.
Step 6: Sanity check with real numbers.
Suppose the 3-number group is $\{3,3,3\}$ so $P=3$, and the 6-number group is $\{6,6,6,6,6,6\}$ so $N=6$. All 9 numbers together average $M = \frac{9+36}{9} = 5$. Check: $3M = 15$ and $2N+P = 12+3=15$. The formula holds.
Final Answer:
The required relation is $3M = 2N + P$.
\[ \boxed{3M = 2N + P} \]