Step 1: Use the general identity
For the two non-real cube roots, $\alpha+\beta=-1$ and $\alpha\beta=1$.
Step 2: First expression
$\alpha^{2}+\beta^{2}+\alpha\beta=(\alpha+\beta)^{2}-\alpha\beta=1-1=0$
Step 3: Second expression
$\alpha^{4}=\alpha$ and $\beta^{4}=\beta$, so the value is $\alpha+\beta+1=0$.
The difference is $0$.
Final Answer:
Both expressions are zero, so their difference is zero.
\[ \boxed{\text{(D) }0} \]