Step 1: Let the original total be $N$. Aman takes $\frac{N}{3}$, leaving $\frac{2N}{3}$, then returns 4, so the jar has $J_1 = \frac{2N}{3}+4$.
Step 2: Bharat takes $\frac{J_1}{4}$, leaving $\frac{3J_1}{4}$, then returns 3, so the jar has $J_2 = \frac{3J_1}{4}+3$.
Step 3: Chitra takes $\frac{J_2}{2}$, leaving $\frac{J_2}{2}$, then returns 2, so the jar has $J_3 = \frac{J_2}{2}+2 = 17$ (Deepa's share).
Step 4: Solve forward: $\frac{J_2}{2}+2=17\Rightarrow J_2=30$. Then $\frac{3J_1}{4}+3=30\Rightarrow J_1=36$. Then $\frac{2N}{3}+4=36\Rightarrow N=48$.
Step 5: Bharat kept (taken $-$ returned) $=\frac{J_1}{4}-3 = 9-3=6$. Chitra kept $=\frac{J_2}{2}-2=15-2=13$.
Step 6: Together Bharat and Chitra kept $6+13=19$.
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