Step 1: Compare the options
Equal surface charge density means charge grows with surface area, which goes as the square of the radius.
Step 2: Why the other options fail
1:2:4 is proportional to radius, and 1:3:9 and 1:6:12 do not match $1^{2}:2^{2}:4^{2}$.
Step 3: Final answer
Charges scale as $r^{2}$, giving 1:4:16.
Final Answer:
Charges scale as $r^{2}$, giving 1:4:16.
\[ \boxed{\text{(C) }1:4:16} \]