Let the breadth of the rectangle be \( b \) and the length be \( l \). Given \( l = b^2 \). The area is \( A = l \times b = b^2 \times b = b^3 \).
We are given \( \frac{dA}{dt} = 4 \, \text{cm}^2/\text{s} \) and need to find \( \frac{dl}{dt} \) when \( b = 4.5 \, \text{cm} \).
Step 1: Differentiate the area equation with respect to time.
\[ \frac{dA}{dt} = 3b^2 \frac{db}{dt} \]
Substituting \( \frac{dA}{dt} = 4 \):
\[ 4 = 3b^2 \frac{db}{dt} \]
Step 2: Solve for \( \frac{db}{dt} \).
Substitute \( b = 4.5 \):
\[ 4 = 3(4.5)^2 \frac{db}{dt} \]
\[ 4 = 3(20.25) \frac{db}{dt} \]
\[ 4 = 60.75 \frac{db}{dt} \]
\[ \frac{db}{dt} = \frac{4}{60.75} \approx 0.79 \, \text{cm/s} \]
Step 3: Find \( \frac{dl}{dt} \).
Since \( l = b^2 \), differentiate \( l \) with respect to time:
\[ \frac{dl}{dt} = 2b \frac{db}{dt} \]
Substitute \( b = 4.5 \) and \( \frac{db}{dt} \approx 0.79 \):
\[ \frac{dl}{dt} = 2(4.5)(0.79) \approx 7.11 \, \text{cm/s} \]
The rate at which the length of the rectangle is increasing when the breadth is 4.5 cm is approximately \( \boxed{7.11 \, \text{cm/s}} \).