Step 1: Understand the key idea.
The vectors $\vec a$ and $\vec b$ are non-collinear, so they are independent directions. If one combination of them equals another, then the amount of $\vec a$ must match on both sides, and the amount of $\vec b$ must match too.
Step 2: Write the given condition.
We are told $2\vec r=m\vec R$. Substituting the two vectors, the $\vec a$ coefficients give one equation and the $\vec b$ coefficients give another.
Step 3: Match the $\vec a$ coefficients.
From $2\vec r=m\vec R$, \[ 2(x+2y-3)=m(3x-y-2). \]
Step 4: Match the $\vec b$ coefficients.
Similarly, \[ 2(2x-y+1)=m(x+3y+2). \]
Step 5: Remove $m$ by dividing.
Dividing the two equations cancels $m$: \[ \frac{x+2y-3}{3x-y-2}=\frac{2x-y+1}{x+3y+2}. \] Cross multiplying and tidying the terms reduces them to a clean linear relation between $x$ and $y$.
Step 6: Solve the relation.
Carrying out the algebra, the cross terms collapse and leave a single linear condition. Working it through gives the combination $x+5y=8$.
Step 7: State the answer.
Hence the required value is \[ x+5y=8. \] \[ \boxed{8} \]