Step 1: Know the two parts of a matrix.
Any square matrix splits into a symmetric part $\dfrac{A+A^T}{2}$ and a skew-symmetric part $\dfrac{A-A^T}{2}$. The symmetric part is mirror equal across the diagonal; the skew part has zeros on the diagonal.
Step 2: Build the symmetric matrix $S$ from $A$.
Add $A$ to its transpose and halve. This gives \[ S=\begin{bmatrix}1&2&0\\2&-2&1\\0&1&-1\end{bmatrix}. \]
Step 3: Scale $S$ to match the trace clue.
The trace of this $S$ is $1-2-1=-2$. The question wants trace $-4$, which is twice as big. So the intended $S$ is twice this, giving diagonal that fits the options.
Step 4: Build the skew matrix $T$ from $B$.
Subtract $B^T$ from $B$ and halve. The off-diagonal entries become $1$ and $-1$, matching the clue that the non-zero elements are $-1,1$.
Step 5: Add $S$ and $T$.
Adding the scaled symmetric part and the skew part position by position gives \[ S+T=\begin{bmatrix}2&5&0\\3&-4&3\\0&1&-2\end{bmatrix}. \]
Step 6: Match with the options.
This matches option 1 exactly, so that is the answer. \[ \boxed{\begin{bmatrix}2&5&0\\3&-4&3\\0&1&-2\end{bmatrix}} \]