Step 1: Understand "linear combination".
Saying $\vec r$ is a linear combination of $\vec a$ and $\vec b$ means $\vec r=x\,\vec a+y\,\vec b$ for some numbers $x$ and $y$. We must find these numbers.
Step 2: Write the vector equation.
\[ -4\hat i-6\hat j-2\hat k=x(-\hat i+4\hat j+3\hat k)+y(-8\hat i-\hat j+3\hat k). \]
Step 3: Group by direction.
\[ -4\hat i-6\hat j-2\hat k=(-x-8y)\hat i+(4x-y)\hat j+(3x+3y)\hat k. \]
Step 4: Compare each direction.
Matching $\hat i$, $\hat j$, $\hat k$ gives three equations:
(1) $-x-8y=-4$, (2) $4x-y=-6$, (3) $3x+3y=-2$.
Step 5: Solve two of them.
From (2): $y=4x+6$. Put this into (1): \[ -x-8(4x+6)=-4\Rightarrow -x-32x-48=-4\Rightarrow -33x=44, \] so $x=-\frac{4}{3}$.
Step 6: Find $y$.
\[ y=4\!\left(-\tfrac{4}{3}\right)+6=-\tfrac{16}{3}+\tfrac{18}{3}=\tfrac{2}{3}. \]
Step 7: Check with the third equation.
$3\!\left(-\frac43\right)+3\!\left(\frac23\right)=-4+2=-2$. It matches, so the answer is reliable. Hence $\vec r=-\frac{4}{3}\vec a+\frac{2}{3}\vec b$, option (1).
\[ \boxed{\vec r=-\tfrac{4}{3}\vec a+\tfrac{2}{3}\vec b} \]