Step 1: Use the condition for a line and parabola to meet once. The line $lx+my+n=0$ touches $y^2=4ax$ when they have exactly one common point, so substitution should give a perfect-square (repeated-root) quadratic.
Step 2: Express $x$ from the line. From $lx+my+n=0$ we get $x=-\dfrac{my+n}{l}$.
Step 3: Substitute into the parabola. Put this in $y^2=4ax$: $y^2=4a\left(-\dfrac{my+n}{l}\right)$, which gives $ly^2+4amy+4an=0$.
Step 4: Apply the tangency (equal roots) condition. For one repeated root the discriminant is zero: $(4am)^2-4\cdot l\cdot 4an=0$.
Step 5: Simplify. $16a^2m^2-16aln=0$. Divide by $16a$: $am^2-ln=0$.
Step 6: State the relation. Hence $am^2=ln$. \[ \boxed{am^2=ln} \]