For reflexivity, the condition \( a \, R \, a \) must hold. This is not satisfied as \( |a - a| = 0 \), whereas the relation requires \( |a - b|>0 \). For symmetry, if \( a \, R \, b \), then \( b \, R \, a \) must be true. Given that \( |a - b| = |b - a| \), the relation is indeed symmetric.
Therefore, option (B) is the correct choice.