Step 1: State the tool.
We repeatedly use Pascal's identity $^{n}C_{r-1}+{}^{n}C_{r}={}^{n+1}C_{r}$ to combine adjacent terms.
Step 2: Combine the first pair.
$^{11}C_4+{}^{11}C_5={}^{12}C_5$ (here $n=11$, lower indices 4 and 5).
Step 3: Rewrite the sum.
The expression becomes $^{12}C_5+{}^{12}C_6+{}^{13}C_7$.
Step 4: Combine the next pair.
$^{12}C_5+{}^{12}C_6={}^{13}C_6$, so we now have $^{13}C_6+{}^{13}C_7$.
Step 5: Combine the last pair.
$^{13}C_6+{}^{13}C_7={}^{14}C_7$.
Step 6: Match with the right side.
So the left side equals $^{14}C_7$, and since it equals $^{14}C_r$, we get $r=7$, matching option (3).
\[ \boxed{r=7} \]