It is given that \( x R y \) if and only if \( x - y + \sqrt{5} \) is irrational.
Step 1: Checking Reflexivity
For \( R \) to be reflexive, \( x R x \) must hold for all \( x \).
\[ \( x - x + \sqrt{5} = \sqrt{5} \) \]
Since \( \sqrt{5} \) is irrational, \( (x, x) \in R \).
Therefore, \( R \) is reflexive.
Step 2: Checking Symmetry
For symmetry, if \( x R y \), then it must be that \( y R x \).
\[ \( x - y + \sqrt{5} \) is irrational \]
\[ \( y - x + \sqrt{5} = -(x - y) + \sqrt{5} \) \]
The sum of an irrational number and a rational number is not always irrational. Thus, \( R \) is not symmetric.
Step 3: Checking Transitivity
For transitivity, if \( x R y \) and \( y R z \), then \( x R z \) must hold.
\[ \( x - y + \sqrt{5} \) is irrational \]
\[ \( y - z + \sqrt{5} \) is irrational \]
Adding these two conditions:
\[ \( (x - y + \sqrt{5}) + (y - z + \sqrt{5}) = x - z + 2\sqrt{5} \) \]
Since \( 2\sqrt{5} \) is irrational, \( x - z + 2\sqrt{5} \) may or may not be irrational.
Therefore, \( R \) is not transitive.
Final Answer:
\( R \) is reflexive but not symmetric and not transitive.
Thus, the correct option is \(\boxed{\text{(a) Reflexive}}\).