Another way to see this is through the idea of degrees of freedom: an unstable truss is one that still has at least one uncontrolled degree of freedom (a possible rigid-body-like motion) left over even after accounting for all members and supports.
Thinking in terms of leftover unconstrained motion rather than a simple equation count leads to the same conclusion about which comparison signals instability.
So the correct answer is \( m + r<2j \).