Step 1: Structure.
$A$ is non-derogatory Hessenberg; eigenspace always dim 1 per eigenvalue.
Step 2: (C) settled.
TRUE for all cases.
Step 3: (B) settled.
Diagonalizable iff eigenspace dim = multiplicity, so iff all distinct. TRUE.
Step 4: (A) false.
Distinct case is diagonalizable.
Step 5: (D) test with example.
$\lambda=0,1,2$: minimal poly degree 3, cannot satisfy quadratic relation. FALSE.
\[ \boxed{\text{B, C}} \]