Step 1: Test the options for orthogonality:
Dot each option with $\bar a = (1, 2, 3)$. A: $25 + 38 - 63 = 0$. B: $-25 + 38 - 63 = -50$. C: $-25 + 38 + 63 = 76$. D: $25 + 38 + 63 = 126$. Only A is orthogonal.
Step 2: Confirm coplanarity:
Check that $[\bar d\ \bar b\ \bar c] = 0$ for $\bar d = (25, 19, -21)$: $\bar d = 13\bar b - 7\bar c$ is a combination of $\bar b$ and $\bar c$, so it is coplanar with them.
Final Answer:
The vector is $25\hat i + 19\hat j - 21\hat k$, option (A).
\[ \boxed{25\hat{i}+19\hat{j}-21\hat{k}} \]